Tuesday, January 26, 2010
We heard back from our attorney last night and the birth mom is still in the hospital. She is expected to deliver on Wednesday if everything goes well. I was a nervous wreck all day yesterday and got absolutely nothing done. I think all the stress of everything was just starting to get to me a little bit. I was so relieved to get the call last night that everything was still progressing smoothly. Hopefully we'll be on a plane by Thursday, in court by Friday and home again a week after that! Thank you to everyone for all of your support and prayers on our behalf. We have the most wonderful family and friends! We'll be sure to keep you posted on any news we have!
Monday, January 25, 2010
First of all, we found out that the birth mom last week with our adoption agency didn't pick us. We were completely fine with that because it happens and our turn will come too. So the plan was to be presented to the next birth mother today, which is Monday. Instead, I got a call from my friend Stacy who told me about another person who posted on our adoption forum about a baby boy that needed to be placed. I emailed right away to get in touch with the lawyer so we could find out more information. I was so nervous the whole night because we didn't hear anything until the next morning of course. Kathy called me and we talked about everything for a minute and then she referred me to Bonnie (who is the attorney). I called Bonnie and we started talking. It was a really crazy day with a few phone calls that made us worry about whether or not the situation would work for us. Finally, the birth mom decided that she wanted our family to adopt because we already have an african american child. Hooray! I was am so excited and completely nervous at the same time. There are so many unknowns in the situation so it is really difficult to take it all in. For now we are just taking it all one step at a time and hoping that everything continues to fall into place. Adoption is quite the journey but it is worth everything in the end. The last update we have is that the birth mom is in the hospital resting. The baby's lungs are not quite developed yet so the doctors think he may be a few weeks early right now. They gave the birth mom steriod shots to help with that and now we are just waiting. We'll fly out to South Carolina as soon as the baby is born and the birth mom signs paperwork. I can feel the wrinkles forming as I type this! I think I'll go have another brownie now. That should help with the stress right?
Thursday, January 21, 2010
So we are just waiting to hear back from our agency if we are the one (out of five couples) to be picked as the adoptive family. We are actually more excited to hear about the situation we would be presented to next if we don't get picked for the first. Confusing, I know... but we feel really good about the second birth mom even though we really know nothing about it. It's just that the birth moms are matched in order and we have a choice to have our profile shown to them as they come up or pass on it and wait for the next one. We really can't pass up any situation where the baby and mom are both healthy. Our previous adoption was completely different because the agency picked us for the birth mom. The only thing we had to worry about was whether or not the birth mother actually went through with the adoption and we came home with our baby. Now I'm not so concerned about being picked as much as having to wait to find out each time we are presented. It is a really strange feeling and my stomach is in knots all the time. I can hardly eat or sleep so I hope this passes quickly for us and we are matched with a birth mom really soon! Then I can deal with the next level of anxiety - waiting for the big day when baby arrives! Ha, ha! Then there is the 24 hour waiting period before the birth mom signs papers to let us adopt the baby. Good thing I'm not thirty yet because all this stress is making me feel like it already! The other positive point is that I'm getting tons of projects done. The baby room should be ready after this weekend and we have just about everything we need for the new baby boy or girl whenever he or she decides to make his or her presence known. I need sleep.
Monday, January 18, 2010
I spent another entire day painting and we now have a mississippi mud baby room. Tired. Done. I'll take the tape off, caulk around the window, reinstall the blinds, put up curtains, shampoo carpets, move furniture back in, install closet shelves, put away baby stuff... tomorrow!
Sunday, January 17, 2010
The answer is yes. We are making plans to adopt again and hopefully in the next few months. We would love it even more if it happens when we are hoping and expecting it to (like as in a specific day in March). The difficult part about it is that I'm not actually the one that is having a baby so everything from now until then completely depends on the decision of a birth mother who we will be fervently praying for. We are sending in a truckload of paperwork to A Guardian Angel adoption agency with whom we have complete confidence in helping us pursue our dreams of bringing home another baby. It is not the typical way most families have kids. Our family gets the more exciting and dramatic adventure with a designer price tag. Yeah we could invest in a house, a new car or go on vacations like we would love to... but we really just want to have another baby and will do whatever it takes to make it happen. We have a really good situation coming up that we hope will work out, but many of my friends who have adopted kids know too well the realities of adoption and how everything can change unexpectedly. We hope and pray that everything goes smoothly and without incident. At the same time, I'm trying not to invest too much of myself into it just in case it doesn't work out. Trying to maintain the balance of hope could be compared to the emotions of a pregnant person so I guess it has its similarities in that sense. My poor husband! Meanwhile, I'm keeping myself busy by working on another book (that I'm illustrating myself), painting the baby room a dark tan or light brown (depending on how you describe it) and working out on the treadmill (thank goodness it is finally replaced at the clubhouse). We talk with Addie about bringing home a baby all the time so she kind of has an idea that sometime in the future a baby will actually be a permanent thing in our home. She gets pretty confused when we watch someone's kids for a few hours and then they go home. She usually remains grumpy about it and keeps asking for the baby to come back so hopefully that is a good sign that she wants a baby too! I love my girl. Aaron is secretly hoping for another girl so he can say, "I love my girls."
Monday, January 11, 2010
I'm starting another project... I know, I haven't even finished the first one yet! BUT, Aaron is determined to finish the illustrations now that he is done with the GMAT (he took it on Saturday) so I have time to work on something else while he finishes that. Anyways... I was playing with Addie today (who is getting so stinkin' smart now) and decided to use my leftover letter stickers to make an alphabet book for her. It turned out really cute and gave me the great idea of making another alphabet book. I must have a thing for ABC books because I always have a million ideas for them. So I'm working on yet another one of my ideas and hopefully I'll get it done before Aaron does and then we'll have 2 books in print. I'll let you know when it's done of course, but don't get too antsy waiting or anything. I still have a stack of burp cloths on my kitchen table to sew, a bedroom to paint, curtains to make, etc. Ha, ha! So little time... too many things I just want to make!
Saturday, January 9, 2010
We finally went to see "The Princess and the Frog" with Addie. She has only been to the movies once before so we were a little concerned about how she would handle sitting through an entire movie in the theater, especially when she started out a little wiggly before it even began! Aaron walked around with her until the previews started and then she clinged to us like glue. She was a little nervous about some of the previews and she kept going back and forth taking turns cuddling Mommy and Daddy. I think she had to get used to the noisy and dark theater too. Once the movie started, she calmed down and stayed put in my lap for the first third of the movie. That was the best part! Then she became interested in the popcorn and root beer so that kept her busy for a little while. Finally she started getting a little wiggly toward the end of the movie and started playing with her shoe, singing the alphabet song and waving to the girls behind her (who had previously handed her popcorn at the beginning of the movie too). The end of the movie grabbed her attention and she gave a great big "WOW!" Adorable, I know... and the movie was great too, but mostly I was just happy to see my little girl enjoy herself.
Friday, January 8, 2010
Addie is officially singing her ABCs and counting from 1-10. I consider it official because she spent nearly an hour singing her ABCs in bed before falling asleep one night mixed in with a few other random tidbits she inserted into the song... like saying a prayer in the middle and then picking right back up where she left off and finishing the alphabet song. She also counted from 1-10 at least thirty times today. I think she likes to show us how smart she is! Of course, we tend to think everything she does is adorable and amazing because we're her parents... but I also have a ton of people constantly commenting on how cute she is all the time. Friday is usually my day to get everything done so we were busy running around town today. Addie entertained everyone she could with her newly acquired mastery of her songs and counting. Me however - I'm kind of ready for something different. What should I teach her next? We're working on "Summertime." Maybe she'll grow up and be a jazz singer! Ha, ha! She sure likes to sing.
Tuesday, January 5, 2010
So I was following my routine of eating dinner when Aaron gets home from work, giving Addie a bath, saying bedtime prayers and putting Addie to bed... followed by changing into workout clothes and going over to our clubhouse to exercise. I usually bring a DVD of some sort to watch, but tonight I turned the TV on and lo and behold... the Biggest Loser Premiere was on! This is probably the first time ever I have seen that show while working out. I admit that I've seen it a few times before and most of the time I was laying on the couch after a long day. I'm kind of proud of the fact that I was actually not feeling guilty while watching it this time! Ha, ha! I guess I have something to look forward to on Tuesday evenings from now on instead of bringing an old movie I've seen a few times before. Good times. Less Guilt. No bon bons.
Sunday, January 3, 2010
We are hoping to be able to add a family member to our trio in the near future. Addie is growing up way too fast and she loves babies like crazy. Those are good reasons, right! I'm thinking that she'll be a very good big sister... at least as soon as she gets over the jealousy part that will surely come when a baby is actually here for good. We talk about having a little brother or sister and she always agrees that she wants a baby too. The baby room is ready as soon as we apply a fresh coat of paint and finish painting the baseboards (a never ending task in our home). A friend let me watch her 1-month-old baby the other day and it was a good reminder of how much work a newborn can be, but it is all so worth it. Addie was so sweet with him and wanted to be close to him the whole time he was here. She read books and sang songs to him. It was really cute. She was quite disappointed when she woke up from her nap and he had gone home with his mom. She kept checking the crib and asking for the baby saying, "Where'd the baby go?" Feel free to let your family and friends know that we are hoping to adopt. Here are our adoption profiles:
Saturday, January 2, 2010
I really can't believe it but Addie is growing out of all of her clothes. I knew this was inevitable but I didn't want to admit it. I'm just like every other mom out there who can't wait to see their baby do such amazing things as they learn and grow... BUT at the same time, I don't want to see her grow out of her baby-ness! I miss the little newborn who would sleep for hours all wrapped up in her blanket... BUT I do love that she now sleeps roughly 12 hours straight at night in her big girl bed! We finally caved in and went shopping to get our growing baby some new big girl clothes. She is now wearing 3T shirts and 2T pants, but we bought bigger pants now because you really can't pass up the 60 percent off deals in the stores. I'm just saying... $2.68 for some leggings and $4.98 for pants! We're all set until she hits another major growth spurt... EXCEPT we'll have to get some new shoes really soon too. She's worth every penny though... AND she looks pretty darn cute in her new outfits!
Friday, January 1, 2010
My favorite scrapbook company has finally created a digital line of products! Hooray! I'm so incredibly excited and can't wait to pick out what to get for my next digital purchase. I highly recommend this company and their products. They always have the latest and greatest designs! These are some things I love about digital scrapbooking:
- You can use a product over and over again - instead of buying paper and running out!
- You never have to worry about going to the store to buy supplies - instant downloads!
- You can change the size or color of any image to make it fit your needs - so fun and easy!
- You don't have to store a bunch of scrapbook supplies - storage space is precious!
- You never have to use a paper cutter - perfectly straight lines every single time!
- You can start and stop a project at any time without all the mess - toddler safe!
- You can send your files to be printed at Costco and pick them up in an hour - efficient!